“Death terrifies us. Not as much as public speaking but that is understandable: We aren’t sure what will happen to us after death; but, after public speaking, the humiliation we will receive is INEVITABLE.”
-Masercot, “Excerpt from book I’m working on“
Nice one and thoughtful 🥂
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🙂 Thank you.
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Unknown facts
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Now it’s a known one! 🙂
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👍🏻
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A very funny quote Chel, and so true for many people!
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😀 It resonated with me.
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Funny. And true, until most people stand at the brink of the actual ends of their lives.
The degree of actual pain or physical and family suffering complicates the matter… but people of faith often face death peacefully, or even with joyous anticipation.
From my observation over the decades, the reverse is true (as an admitted generalization) for those who chose to lives based on their own desires. Their uncertainty usually logically turns into anxiety, even fear. This is often true for those who “believed” in God’s existence, but ignored it.
Still, public speaking can be a pretty terrifying experience too.
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So, existentially, this depends on your level of social anxiety.
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Ha
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😉
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So true
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This is why we don’t volunteer for speeches.
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Indeed we don’t!
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Disagree (oh, how unusual, thinks Chel). 😉 Death’s the inevitable one. Public speaking, while sometimes imtimidating, can be totally liberating for those kept silent in the past.
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What if you die by public speaking?
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Happened to anyone you know? 🙂
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… if it has, I don’t know them anymore…
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That kicked my anxiety up a notch! 🤨
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Well, *that’s* not good!
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Not your fault at all. 😘
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I once spoke in front of my church and tripped on the stairs on the way off stage. There was a collective gasp and then a chuckle when everyone saw I was ok. Except that I wasn’t. My pride will remember that moment forever!
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See? Debilitating!
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Speaking IN public is just as bad. Or maybe it’s just me…
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😀 Yes; I keep thinking, “Well, *you’re* clearly not bothered by it!”
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I don’t mind speaking in front of a large group at all. Individual conversations are harder.
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That’s really interesting. I think I’m the opposite.
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Well, that’s what makes horse races. I don’t know why, but it’s an old saying so it must be true.
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I used to be in the afraid camp when it came to public speaking, but that was back a few decades ago. My high school speech teacher said that it was Americans’ greatest fear. I often think to myself, “Look at me. I’m up here. I wonder how many others in the audience would be afraid to take my place.”
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😀 I’m cripplingly shy but was more so as a child.
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It is empowering to conquer anything like that because it proves to us we can overcome other challenges.
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I dunno. I kind of like public speaking.
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😀 I’m not getting much support, here.
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Sorry about that. Haha.
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When it comes to public speaking, it is sometimes best to have it pre-written. Then rehearse it in front of a mirror.
The more public speaking you do the easier it becomes. However, public speaking scares most the first couple of times.
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This is very sound advice. I think one needs to come up with some strategy, like looking at the back row or noticing how *you* can see all of *them* as well.
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That’s so funny. But true. 🙂
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See? Norah also understands!
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🤣 Sometimes that humiliation just goes on, and on, and on …
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Hey! I thought you were a cute frog!
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? 🤣🐸
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Public speaking and using one of those electronic locking toilets on a train.
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Ooh, really? I can’t imagine.
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Heh-heh, this quote is SO good!
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Yes! He’s a funny one!
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One of my first memories as a very young child was singing; ‘I’m a Little Teapot’ – I felt like the whole world was staring me down. Still not one of my favorite things to do… but certainly a better alternative… perhaps. There is so much we don’t know while we are living.
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Sure. It’s mostly tongue-in-cheek. 🙂
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